I woke up this morning to an email about a employee at my work who died suddenly this weekend. She worked there for 30 years 'and will be greatly missed'. They are even having a memorial for her. I have no idea who this person is. Do I ask someone to describe her? Any pictures? Of her, I mean. Not the death. I don't want to seem like I'm waiting to see if I'll mourn her. Imagine going to the memorial, sitting down and getting a pamphlet. "Oops! This wasn't who I thought it was. Scuze me. Pardon me. Scuze me..." MB, RIP where ever you are... and who ever you are.