It's amazing how thick skulled some people are. I have a friend who's going through some tough times because of another person and for some strange reason that third party thinks they're still going to be buddy buddy with me. Seriously... My friend is very special to me and it kills me to see her having to deal with utter bullshit. This third party is someone SHE introduced me to and I spoke with on a couple of occasions when I was going to see her. Yeah, that makes you my best friend and big toe.. Two words, baby: FUCK OFF.

I can't take this anymore. Honestly... it's getting rediculous. I have a friend who I care for. He's a complete sweetheart. He's also driving me up the fucking wall. He went from a great guy that I enjoyed chatting with to someone who starts every conversation with 'Do you like me anymore' or 'Are you through with being stressed?' I used to be very comfortable talking to him. Now I dread the same questions. I asked him numerous times to understand that I am dealing with a lot of stress with the layoffs and move and to please give me some space. He responded by IMing and PMing me asking if we were still friends. I finally told him that I couldn't take it anymore and that we shouldn't talk for a while. I told him that I would contact him. He continued as if I said nothing.

This all started because he blurted out that he didn't like Bane, who happens to be my best friend. Bane, on the other hand, has no problems with him. Bane's only spoken to him once or twice and thought he was a nice guy. While I was flabbergasted, I respected his feelings. That didn't stop him from laying into me about how he felt about him. I finally put my foot down about it and asked him EXACTLY what he didn't like. He could never answer me. When he saw that Bane was posting more on NCT again he flipped. He sent me a bizarre PM saying that although he was never 100% on NCT (more like 3%) he was leaving it for good. This was right after I had told people that I needed to get away from all the online drama. Gee... thanks.

I hate losing friends, but I feel like he is forcing me to make a choice. His constant PMs, IMs and emails are borderline stalking. So far I've just ignored his messages (after the one that said not to contact me). This morning I woke up to two IMs, two PMs and FOUR emails... all saying the same thing. I lost it. I emailed him back saying to stop all contact. I told him that he was making me miserable and to just STOP. My next step is to just be a raving bitch... or sick my boyfriend on him.